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Habitat Makes Homeownership a Reality "If God had given me a peek into my future, I wouldn't have gone", admits Habitat homeowner Lisa. The road that led her to owning her new house had been everything but smooth. When Lisa finally came to Habitat for help she was, as she puts it, "in serious, dire need." She and her children — then 14, 12, 8 and 4 years old — were living with her parents and several other relatives in a three-bedroom row house. Lisa and her children shared a bedroom with a set of bunk beds, taking turns sleeping on the floor. She felt sad and guilty that her children had to live in such conditions, especially her oldest son who was just entering his teen years and deserved his privacy.Bad became worse when her parents' house caught on fire and everyone was displaced. Lisa shuffled the kids between friends' houses and rentals paid for by insurance while the fire damage was repaired. When she called the local Habitat office for the first time she laid it right out. She needed a house RIGHT NOW. Her patience had dwindled and she was desperate. But the homeownership program is a process, not a quick fix, as she learned when she called that day. When she spoke with the family service coordinator, she was tremendously impressed with his awesome attitude and empathy. "Bless his heart," says Lisa. "He never said 'no.'" With encouragement from the affiliate staff, Lisa was able to gather the strength she needed to sign on for a year or more of hard work. She prayed and cried and went on ahead. Twice, Lisa had tried to purchase a home the traditional way, but the options were either unaffordable or in neighborhoods where she wouldn't feel safe raising her kids. She even applied for Section 8 housing, and found out that it came through the very day she was offered her Habitat house. Lisa wouldn't take the easy way out, though. She persevered for her children. They had been troopers for too long. God's Handsby Sarah Martin, oldest daughter of the first Habitat family in Anne Arundel County
Looking beyond those college years, I remembered the countless people who had helped me to get on the road to college. I wondered how many of them ever knew how they had helped me. How many of the Habitat volunteers knew that helping my family move from my grandparents' drafty unfinished addition to a warm insulated house brought an end to my constant illnesses and allowed me to study? Does the aged electrician who taught me about electrical currents remember the little girl who watched him with wondering eyes? How much credit belongs to the volunteers who spent countless hours building our house and taught me that it was possible to overcome seemingly insurmountable circumstances? My family's difficulties had seemed completely overwhelming before we learned about Habitat. My father had lost his job and we were losing our rented house all at the same time. I remember the paralyzing fear I felt watching my father cry, and thinking that if my all-knowing parents didn't know a way out of our predicament then there couldn't be one. But unbeknownst to us, there was a way out for us, and hundreds of people who had never met us came together and provided it. I've frequently heard people tell those who are struggling that "God will provide a way." And it's true, He does. But even as I am thankful for God's provision both in giving our family a home and in helping me get through college, I am also thankful for the uncounted number of people who chose to be God's hands — who gave their time, money and supplies toward my family's future and my own. And as I pray and thank God for my blessings, I thank God for those individuals and pray that, like them, I will become one of God's hands. ![]() Other Family's CommentsHabitat has given us not just the joy of homeownership, but also our participation in the whole construction with the help of good-hearted and good-willed people who we would never have met otherwise Tolu and Angela Odunlami , Montgomery County The windows were falling apart on the home I was renting and I was paying too much for heat. It was not a good situation for me and my two children. I was desperate. ..It was very scary at first. ...My family and I worked very hard. We were there at the house every single weekend. ...God was looking down on me and blessed me. ...At times, I find myself thinking I'm still paying rent. But then I remember that these are mortgage payments and that I'm going to own this house one day. It's a happy feeling. Luz Maria DeJesus , Wicomico County I never realized what it meant to have friends until I met the people at Habitat. They have shown me a more positive side to life. For the last year I had nothing to look forward to except my divorce, and that was no fun. Now, I look forward to becoming a homeowner. Just knowing that within months I will have a new home is so uplifting. I feel as though I am one of the luckiest people on the earth. Not only am I gaining stability in my life, but I also have goals and dreams again. I have a new family at Habitat made up of true angels. This whole experience has made me a better, happier person, friend and mother. Kelly Keiser, Harford County It's a dream come true to own our new home and to be a Habitat partner family. It is very exciting and hard work is involved, but it is well worth it. The volunteers take their vacation to work on the houses, young and old. If more people would give instead of always taking, the world would be a better place to live. Darrell, Tabatha, Ashley and Jeremy Horton, Garrett County This is our home that we live in. But if you look further you will see the love of everyone. ...We can never pay you back. All we have to offer is just our thanks, our heartfelt thanks. Daniel Wood, son of James and Joyce Wood , Harford County Sometimes after a long day at work I sit in my living room and look around and smile. I thank God for Habitat and blessing me with the house that I worked so hard to get through and with Habitat for Humanity. Janice Tutt, Anne Arundel County My father taught us to work hard, obey the law and go to church, but he never taught us to dream because he never believed that dreams could come true. What little we had belonged to somebody else and we often had to move [from one substandard living situation to another]. When my brother said he was going to apply for a home with Habitat, I did not trust Habitat thinking that there had to be a catch. Nobody helps people like us. But I was wrong. Now I know that there are good people out there who are willing to help people like us. The one thing that I've learned from our experience is that I can now dream because I know that dreams can come true and I can pass that on to my children and their children. Diane Johnson, Anne Arundel County It changed our life. We have more peace, not a lot of people bothering us. Everybody's really happy. Penny Williams, Prince George's County |
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